FROM The mind of a HONEST WOMAN !

" I heard an interesting message the other day. targeted at men
but beneficial for ladies too. to paraphrase...

"This is not your daddy's dating scene; the same rules no longer apply. his advice on how to date a woman...null and void. y? in his day, provision was very important and made a man feel like a man. women depended on men to help meet their needs for food shelter money, etc. a man was judged by what he could do, where he worked, and how he provided for the family.

But playing the field is different now. "she got her own". i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t
BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN SHE DOESNT NEED YOU! so find out what she needs NOW!
dont assume that because she is degreed with a decent job and car (and maybe a house) that you have no place. YOU DO! even if you dont have all those things

God CREATED you a man. remember that! Your job doesnt make you a man. the amount of money you have doesnt make you a man. your car doesnt make you a man. how much you can give a gal doesnt make you a man (hee hee). and the LACK of any of those doesnt take manhood away. and dont let some generic chick tell you different either.find a real one!

{LADIES: a real one aint "diggin" or judgin or belittlin' or trippin. she doesnt try to compete with a guy or run him over. the words supportive and humble come to mind.}

please, please, please dont confuse independence with a lack of a woman's need or desire for you... YOU (not stuff). and dont be intimidated by what she has or does or feel like you have nothing to offer, etc.

so...whenever you are actually ready to make somethin happen with a real one, dont go all neanderthal! find out what she needs TODAY. there is still a need to be met (and it aint just sex!)

MAN UP!